Anticipation

What's the difference between dumping your load in a wet pussy and blowing it using your hand?

Mechanically, it is very similar. The wet cunt surrounds your dick and provides stimulation as you thrust. Your hand surrounds your dick and provides stimulation as you stroke. And, of course, it's much easier to move your hand back and forth than it is to move your pelvis back and forth. But in terms of stimulation, the results are very similar.

It's all in your head.

Probably many of us grew up as masturbating wannabe fuckers. We probably blew our first load of cum with our hand (or perhaps at the hands of someone else). If you are a heterosexual masturbator, then you might have blown quite a few loads while gazing upon the babes in girly magazines or thinking about some girl you happened to know. As you stroked your dick and ogled her body perhaps you were amazed how anyone could be so beautiful. Perhaps you wondered what it would be like to fuck her. Perhaps you wanted to fuck her. You were a wannabe fucker.

Of course, there was no way you could know what it was like to be a fucker. But you knew that orgasms felt really good. You had experienced many by your own hands. And everyone talked about how great it was to be a fucker. Naturally you wanted to be one too! In the mean time you kept on masturbating.

Perhaps one day you got your big chance- you finally got your dick inside a wet pussy. Perhaps it was a really nice experience- after all this is what you had been anticipating for years! But if you're like most guys, you probably can't find a woman who is going to give you as much sex as you'd like. The woman you do find probably has a mind of her own and isn't interested in sex every day for hours at a time. Not every guy needs that either, but some of us do.

There are probably two main differences between dumping your load in a wet cunt and dumping it in your hand. The first is anticipation. By there very nature, the average woman is a tease. She dresses up in a sexy outfit, puts on makeup, and flirts in such a way as to make men horny. When you walk down the street no doubt you see plenty of women you'd like to fuck. But how often does this happen. So the result is lots of anticipation! Anticipation and frustration lead to lots of arousal so that when you finally do get inside your experience is intense. Perhaps you're so excited that you cum sooner than you'd like. (Of course there are studs who can screw for long periods of time, but they probably don't suffer from excessive anticipation due to the fact that so many women are drawn to them).

In contrast, when you masturbate you're in control. You can do it often and for long periods of time. You can do it anyway you like. As a result, this form of sex is going to give you much more pleasure in the long run. An if you happen to like looking at women, there's always porn!

When an individual anticipates getting more pleasure from masturbation than from fucking he goes from being a wannabe fucker to a pathetic masturbator.